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Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Wee Shu Min private home video exposed!!!

"I beg your pardon!! We are gods!!"


Full video part 1
Full video part 2

Oh my goddess! Ms Wee Shu Min is not only a blogger/social critic/bikini model/comic character/internet idol, she's also an actress playing a goddess! Watch out Gayle Goh, she's going to steal your ricebowl!

In the video she plays Cacia/Kakia. According to Greek mythology, "Kakia was the female Daimon (Spirit) of vice and moral badness. She was depicted as a vain, plump and heavily made-up woman dressed in revealing clothes."

I guess the god complex role suits her very well although we have heard what they say of money and power being intoxicating. Maybe she recently got too engrossed in her acting roles with real-life. I say her acting in the video is truly get-in-your-face terrific.

Just a few comments on the whole Derek Wee vs Wee Shu Min fiasco because so few bloggers wrote about it from a fair and bigger point of view.

I agree with the main points of what Wee Shu Min said on her removed blog in reply to Derek Wee's posting in his blog, although her tone and choice of words is regrettable even if she was just writing to herself. Maybe her frustration had something to do with hormones? She probably just got fed up with many of the middle-age blog whiners in Singapore. Wee Shu Min is a Minister's daughter studying in the top JC, of course she is more or less intelligent and resourceful enough to know and understand the social climate in Singapore.

Derek Wee was talking about the work struggles of ageism and discrimination in Multi National Corporations(MNCs) which is within the private sector. This is out of the scope of the government to influence. If Derek Wee worries of his livelihood, he would have more luck in securing a solid ricebowl if he starts his own business or work in the public sector.

So the points put forth by Wee Shu Min are valid.

It was wrong for many people to link the MRT suicides to elites like WSM because sometimes the desperately poor people are under-educated and cannot adapt in society. Sometimes people are poor not because they are losing in the rat race, or encountered an unfortunate incident or sickness that depleted alot of life savings. Sometimes these people or their family members have gotten into bad habits like excessive shopping, drinking or gambling, that causes one to spend more than one earns, in order to get into a desperate state of poverty trap. So no amount of money from progress packages could help such poor families unless they are willing to change their living attitude with psychological counselling, then they can be taught to catch their own fish instead of depending on donations from the government all the time. Until this common worldwide situation can be resolved, the poor will definitely get poorer and the rich will definitely get richer.

Many bloggers have targeted Wee Shu Min's father, her JC, her youth, her social class and even go so low as to target her physical attributes. They have also accused the Rich and Elite people like Wee Shu Min of being uncompassionate towards people of the lower class. This is just what blog whiners are really good at doing, failing to see the bigger pictures and instead complaining and whining at every easy target they set their eyes on. They even fail or refuse to recognise that the statement Wee Shu Min made, "get out of my elite uncaring face", is a sarcastic remark made in frustration.

But if the Poor cannot understand how the Rich live their lives, do not expect all of the Rich to understand how the Poor live their lives as well. It is not everyone's obligation to be compassionate towards everything.

So what Wee Shu Min said in her blog or how she said them, is really just her own private business(as how her father put it) and part of her own freedom of speech on the Internet. If internet bloggers wish to lambast every other person for saying things they do not agree with, then they are pot-calling-the-kettle-black contradicting hypocrites who demand free speech in Singapore but ever so failing to recognise and promote it when they have the chance, and instead gang up and terrorise other bloggers with their own abused freedom of speech.

They should be very shameful of their own actions, especially those bloggers who wrote negative things about Wee Shu Min and targeted her associations just so they could go with the flow of the majority and increase the number of visitors to their sites. They have clearly demonstrated their plain lack of intelligence, reason and civil morals.

It is indeed true when one of our MPs said the blogosphere in Singapore is still generally immature.

Complaining when one has set oneself in a poverty trap is not only myopic and unreasonable, it will not improve the situation. Some things are reasonable enough to voice complains and some things are just plainly out of point. I guess this was the point that Wee Shu Min really made in her sarcastic and frustrated reply towards Derek Wee's complains that were seemingly out of point.

Come on, what do people expect to find in an 18 yr old girl's diary about her own private life and personal ramblings? Not everyone thinks like Saint Jesus. And not everyone wishes to be constantly judged by one's associations.

Wee Shu Min is an MP's daughter, she's rich, elite and study at the top JC in Singapore. So what? Her obligation is to feed the poor? She's also like every other 18 yr old human being with emotions, not a scapegoat nor a convenient target for angsty people who dislike the government.

If a blogger posts alot of personal information, it doesn't mean other people can take the personal information and use it against the blogger. Sometimes teenage bloggers just want to ramble as a form of cathartic release from their lives and not put up a false front just because of where she studies or who her father is. And then people want to hijack this opening and use it for their own agendas with abused freedom of speech?

Who takes seriously every word of an 18 yr old student's private thoughts in her blog? It just shows how tyrant, selfish, despicable, backward and sick some adult Singaporean bloggers are. I am laughing and mocking at these people's comments so is Wee Shu Min. They should learn from their own silly mistake.

The private life of a blogger is just that, private. Private details of bloggers should be respected and not be picked out and showcased to every busybody on the Net. This is what privacy and a private blog means. This is common civil sense that every civilised person practises.

Does Wee Shu Min have to blog like the MPs from p65.sg? And is there honestly a need for a right of reply for a teenager's frustrated musings on her blog? Get real and look in the right direction.

No sane and intelligent person honestly seeks politically correct speech from a teenager venting her frustrations on her blog. I know I don't. I don't even care who her father is. Doing that is not only looking in the wrong direction, it's also insanely stupid.

I guess Wee Shu Min thought likewise but I guess Singaporeans and their calibre are full of surprises. This also goes out to the crackpot low grade 'fine' teachers who censor their students' blogs. I guess that is such encouraging role model behaviour for others to follow.

It is the very same people who continue to associate Wee Shu Min with her father, that are the ones who practise shameless worship of social connections and discrimination to an obnoxious level.

Wee Shu Min and her minister father are human beings like every other Singaporean, they certainly are not supernatural religious figures without flaws, so why should they wear hypocrite masks just to pacify every whining critic of the government?

This whole fiasco should not even happen, it only makes Singaporean bloggers look volatile and stupid.

43 Comments:

At 12:29 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

whybesad says..

By telling the world in public blog that her name is Wee Shu Min and thats her photo in actual likeness, its like saying my father is so and so, I'm from RJC and so on. You know the goddamned internet via forums, wiki etc. can be like a dictionary and trace you to kingdom come, enough to do you injustice sometimes. If she wrote in that manner, what do you expect? Then what, she closed her blog instead of standing up to her principles or repairing the damage. Granted she is only 18, but do rebel with a cause and use her talent to better effect. I personally give her benefit of the doubt that she didnt mean to put it that way. So, its a lesson learnt, and she should be better for it and come up stronger. Perhaps one day she 'll earn kudos from those same fellows who flamed her here.

About the flaming, you should see what some authorities do to critics. They stamped them to the ground and pour cement over it..a matter of speech. You know, setting good examples is also important. Think about it. God bless.

3:49 PM

 
At 7:14 AM, Blogger ? said...

Come on. What do you expect to find in an 18 yr old girl's diary about her own private life and personal ramblings?

Not everyone thinks like Saint Jesus. And not everyone wishes to be constantly judged by one's associations.

Wee Shu Min is an MP's daughter, she's rich, elite and study at the top JC in Singapore. So what? Her obligation is to feed the poor? She's also like every other 18 yr old human being with emotions, not a scapegoat nor a convenient target for angsty people who dislike the government.

If a blogger post alot of personal information, it doesn't mean other people can take the personal information and use it against the blogger.

Sometimes teenage bloggers just want to ramble as a form of cathartic release from their lives and not put up a false front just because of where she studies or who her father is.

And then people want to hijack this opening and use it for their own agendas with abused freedom of speech?

Who takes seriously every word of an 18 yr old student's private thoughts in her blog? It just shows how tyrant, selfish, despicable, backward and sick some adult Singaporean bloggers are.

I am laughing and mocking at these people's comments so is Wee Shu Min. They are the ones who should learn from their own silly mistake.

 
At 8:25 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Blog and be private by all means but lock it up. Isnt there an option provided where you can do that for the eyes of her kind of friends only? Its alright to laugh and mock. Its not alright to put it in writng cos there a right of reply. Kind for kind. There is also such thing as freedom of speech and one with responsibility. I'm sure she cares aboout her father in his public position. You know it.

 
At 9:35 AM, Blogger ? said...

The private life of a blogger is just that, private. Private details of bloggers should be respected and not be picked out and showcased to every busybody on the Net. This is what privacy and a private blog means. This is common civil sense that every civilised person practises.

Does Wee Shu Min have to blog like the MPs from p65.sg? And is there honestly a need for a right of reply for a teenager's frustrated musings on her blog? Get real and look in the right direction.

No sane and intelligent person honestly seeks politically correct speech from a teenager venting her frustrations on her blog. I know I don't. I don't even care who her father is. Doing that is not only looking in the wrong direction, it's also insanely stupid.

I guess Wee Shu Min thought likewise but I guess Singaporeans and their calibre are full of surprises. This also goes out to the crackpot low grade 'fine' teachers who censor their students' blogs. I guess that is such encouraging role model behaviour for others to follow.

It is the very same people who continue to associate Wee Shu Min with her father, that are the ones who practise shameless worship of social connections and discrimination to an obnoxious level.

Wee Shu Min and her minister father are human beings like every other Singaporean, they certainly are not supernatural religious figures without flaws, so why should they wear hypocrite masks just to pacify every whining critic of the government?

This whole fiasco should not even happen, it only makes Singaporean bloggers look volatile and stupid.

 
At 5:06 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Apparently, its now taboo for some but itll get mention again after a while in most unexpected places :>

 
At 2:31 AM, Blogger le radical galoisien said...

"This is out of the scope of the government to influence."

I digress ... the government can enact anti-discrimination legislation. Furthermore, why do we not have a proper minimum wage? Every major developed nation does. Even Malaysia has a minimum wage and we do not.

The only countries that don't have these sort of legislations are countries like the PRC, North Korea ...

It's not about being politically correct. I care not about her language, I care about her content. As far as I am aware, even if she did put it diplomatically, I would have conducted a vendetta on her all the way.

 
At 3:43 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why does the gahmen sue the racist bloggers given that it is their private life?

Why Astar threatened to sue acidflask for his comments on Astar's scholarship program given that it is his private opinions on his private blog?

Do they have to blog like the MPs from p65.sg? And is there honestly a need for a right of reply for youths' frustrated musings on their blog? Get real and look in the right direction.

No sane and intelligent person honestly seeks politically correct speech from a teenager venting her frustrations on her blog. I know I don't. I don't even care who her father is. Doing that is not only looking in the wrong direction, it's also insanely stupid.

The private life of a blogger is just that, private. Private details of bloggers should be respected and not be picked out and showcased to every busybody on the Net. This is what privacy and a private blog means. This is common civil sense that every civilised person practises.

They are human beings like every other Singaporean, they certainly are not supernatural religious figures without flaws, so why should they wear hypocrite masks just to pacify every whining supporter of the government?

This whole fiasco should not even happen, it only makes Singapore govt look volatile and stupid.

 
At 3:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I notice that your concepts of civil rights does not apply to homosexuals who are just as human as u.

hence u are just a hypocritical as the ppl u bash.

 
At 3:47 AM, Blogger ? said...

"I digress ... the government can enact anti-discrimination legislation."

Legislation in MNCs? Get real. They would simply move away from Singapore.

"Furthermore, why do we not have a proper minimum wage? Every major developed nation does."

Singapore the small island state is not a 'major' developed rich nation even if many people would like to think otherwise. Therefore to be competitive and surviving, it has to take advantage of low cost workers. Implement a minium wage policy and many companies would simply move away. Many people including me would support a minium wage policy but Singapore simply cannot handle it for now.

"As far as I am aware, even if she did put it diplomatically, I would have conducted a vendetta on her all the way."

A vendetta on her about?

 
At 4:06 AM, Blogger ? said...

"Why does the gahmen sue the racist bloggers given that it is their private life?

Why Astar threatened to sue acidflask for his comments on Astar's scholarship program given that it is his private opinions on his private blog?"

The racist bloggers directed their vulgar opinions on race and religion in public discussion forums with a wide audience.

Acidflask's "blog" on his university's website wasn't exactly a private blog to begin with. If Acidflask was confident that his complaints were valid in accordance to the terms and conditions on the scholarship program, he should have gone to court to defend his views. Otherwise his comments were just meant to put an organisation in a negative light. This is why people always have to know what they want and read before they sign anything.

 
At 4:09 AM, Blogger ? said...

"I notice that your concepts of civil rights does not apply to homosexuals who are just as human as u."

In what way does my concepts of civil rights do not apply to homosexuals? State an example.

 
At 4:49 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

yea why take to it so seriously, it make people look stupid? Like you say, whybegay. So, shut the .... up! Why comment then?

 
At 5:05 AM, Blogger ? said...

Because people's silly mistake has to be corrected otherwise history will only repeat itself.

And why should I shut up, unless you wish to deny my freedom of speech?

 
At 5:11 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Correct yours too. I thought you said private blog should be private and not comment on. What are you..attracting more comments?

 
At 5:43 AM, Blogger ? said...

When the things Wee Shu Min said have been published in the papers, they are no longer just part of a blog.

I am simply commenting on people's reactions while referring to her thoughts.

Had the matter not been blown to such a huge proportion on the blogosphere and media, I wouldn't have care any less to comment on it.

But people's mistake has to be corrected.

If people have the right to comment on my blog, I also have the right of reply to defend my own views.

If people are attracted by my views, so be it.

 
At 11:09 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Acidflask's "blog" on his university's website wasn't exactly a private blog to begin with. If Acidflask was confident that his complaints were valid in accordance to the terms and conditions on the scholarship program, he should have gone to court to defend his views. Otherwise his comments were just meant to put an organisation in a negative light. This is why people always have to know what they want and read before they sign anything.

Gosh your "logic" is so flawed and convoluted. By applying your reasoning, WSM's blog on a public company's server isn't exactly a private blog either. She should have registered her own domain name and hosted it on her own private server.

If WSM "was confident that her complaints were valid", she should have defended her views in her blog or other public forum. "Otherwise her comments were just meant to put a group of people in a negative light".

 
At 11:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

The private life of a blogger is just that, private. Private details of bloggers should be respected and not be picked out and showcased to every busybody on the Net. This is what privacy and a private blog means. This is common civil sense that every civilised person practises.

And right here on this blog we find a link to a youtube video starring WSM, specially picked out and showcased to every busybody who visits this blog. Where has this blogger's common civil sense gone to? Somehow, lessons in morality are not very convincing when the teacher does not practise what he preaches.

 
At 12:02 PM, Blogger ? said...

Wee Shu Min blog was on Blogger, not on a make-shift "blog" on a university's domain.

Commenting on a person's views is different from commenting on a government organisation's policies while under bond.

Whether Wee Shu Min should have defended her views or not is up to her own decision. But I guess she chose not to since she felt that people have already over-reacted to her comments. This would later prove to be correct when they took her private data meant to be shared among friends and posted them all over the Internet.

Therefore she made the right choice by shutting down her blog after posting an apology. There was no point of her to defend her views against over-reacting people who can't see reason.

The youtube video was part of an orientation video. I would hardly call it private. And it was meant to display Wee Shu Min's amazing acting skills to the public.

The title of the post was meant to attract people so that at least they would be directed to the bigger picture instead of some other constricted post.

 
At 5:29 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

and on the other hand you mock in comment. What tf.

 
At 9:05 AM, Blogger ? said...

That's just letting people see their own reflection. Hope they don't turn to stone.

 
At 4:11 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

How Singaporeans initially utilised Hong Lim Park, usergroups, forums and now blogs...clearly showed me that yes, Singaporeans aren't ready for Freedom of Speech.

Its a Catch 22. You want free speech, but when given, its abused. Then govt, with their nanny mentality, feels compelled to step in.

If we cant handle free speech, can we handle the free democracy that we all clamour for?

We still got a long way to go as a nation.

 
At 12:19 AM, Blogger Shaun Lee said...

How is free speech "abused"?

It's an erroneous assumption that one has the right not to be offended in which case one may as well say one has the right not to be disagreed with.

Should people be more temperate in the manner in which they expouse views? Sure, perhaps but not always. Conversely, should we reduce speech to make fit the most squeemish amongst us, would be to sanitize it to the point of mere platitude and blandness.

Or similarly, by censoring speech on the basis of how much uproar it creates simply gives power to the least tolerant and most hidebound amongst us and is the ultimate "heckler's veto"

Truth no long becomes the final arbiter or purpose of speech instead the avoidance of offence is all. In which case, better not speak.

 
At 7:58 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wahaha.. who the f is Wee Shu Min? Discussing about her makes her even more famous, or notorious. Personally I don't care about a silly JC student.. why is this even a big issue.. you guys have nothing to talk about?

 
At 11:55 AM, Blogger ? said...

Shaun, don't be so naive with your western utopian ideals. Nothing is totally idiot proof.

 
At 3:50 PM, Blogger Shaun Lee said...

If I'm "naive" and presumably you're not an idiot how about explaining the following to me

1. Why am I "naive" given that we have criminal laws against harassment, slander, libel, breaches of peace and tranquility and riots to handle the "fall-out" of free-speech?

2. Why is it necessarily "Western" and why does it matter that it's "Western"

3. Why would it be utopian? See 1.

4. Ideals are bad?

 
At 11:30 PM, Blogger ? said...

No Shaun, go take a hike.

 
At 5:12 PM, Blogger le radical galoisien said...

"Many people including me would support a minium wage policy but Singapore simply cannot handle it for now."

This issue about "survival" is totally abused by the government in order to justify slavery.

Where is that old cry,

give me liberty or give me death!

?

I'd rather be content and happy than suffer under authoritarian materialism.

 
At 2:59 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

people like to invoke their right for freedom of speech. what is freedom of speech? what is freedom? with freedom does it mean that one can blah blah blah for all he/she desires?

remember this old adage - "the freedom to swing your arm ends where your nose begins." bear that in mind

 
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At 5:12 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Another misinformed attention seeker. If a blog is truly private, pray tell why the courts jailed two bloggers for sedition? Blog is private what. The judges are not "civilised" enough to know that meh?

Don't bother trying to jack up your site traffic with ludicrous claims. You end up looking more stupid than you originally intended.

 
At 7:14 AM, Blogger ? said...

It must be my lucky day. A visit from the sadder, LSE(low self esteem)class.

Qn: On what grounds did the courts jail the two bloggers?

Ans: The courts jailed the two bloggers based on their motives.

Now that you have gotten the answer you came all the way to seek, you can move up on your enlightenment ladder.

Statistics is not everything to me. My site traffic already is very high to me, because I know there are very few sensible people in Singapore and my blog can only target them.

And I am not competing with other blogs, those blog actors can attract as much audience as they want with their entertaining views.

 
At 7:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG, this guy is truly an idiot. If the two bloggers utter a racist remark in their bedroom, will they be arrested? Of course not, because that's a private space where no one else hears the remark. A blog will be seen by others like any other website. What's the claim about a blog being private?

I suppose you need a head check. It's pretty cheap at the Institute of Mental Health.

 
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At 9:59 PM, Blogger ? said...

Hello? Anyone home?

I already mentioned it is due to the blogger's and their blog's motives. The name of WSM's blog is "Such Vivid Nothing" and her personal blog entries and pictures implied that it was meant to be a private blog about her private life.

However, the name of one of the racist blogs was something like "Holocaust101" or something and the other three even posted their seditious views in public discussion forums.

If not for publicists like the kaypoh internet voyeur Tay Wei Kiat, who would have known of her interesting blog?

The sadder and LSE class only knows how to sprout such vivid nonsense.

IMH is cheap? Spoken like a regular patron. Continue your treatment, I wish you all the best. And stay off the internet because its many brutal truths can be too much for a denial mentality to handle.

 
At 12:10 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Leaving the door open and blaming the thief. You seriously need a head check. I ain't going to waste no more time on lunatics that should be tied up in a straitjacket.

 
At 2:46 AM, Blogger ? said...

I think it was Rob-bin Hood who broke open the door in the first place because he was too jealous and greedy of success.

I agree that you should not waste too much time talking to lunatics in your mental institution, instead you should use the time to strive for meritocracy like good and honest people do, and not on planing cut shorts that can land one in prison.

 
At 6:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

That's the spirit!

And no more students with donation cans on "flag day" bugging people on the streets to donate!

Tell them stop bugging you and to go get it from the govt!

DONATION CANS AND BEGGARS ARE NOW OFFICIALLY BANNED!!

 
At 10:24 AM, Blogger ? said...

I don't think the meagre amount collected in donation cans is enough to support the organisations or to support the poor for a year, but only just enough to cover the administration costs of the organisations and to print more stickers, for further publicity on the streets.

But they should not blatantly mislead or force innocent students to be their advertising promoters and beggars.

Those street beggars were already approached many times by welfare groups but they still want to beg, probably because they are often to proud to solely depend on welfare, and maybe they just need money for something.

 
At 8:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

COE prices are way down...thats the largest tax in the world...so naturally it needs to turn to GST again...other countries have only GST/VAT. Yes, ministers' pay (which is incidently the largest also in the world) needs revision once the GST is in place again... the poors' welfare from the GST is just a sweetener to make it looks good...
they could have just kept the ministers' pay as it is & take the increase to the poor instead... for the kind of money they are already getting...there is no convincing who will not step up to join...

 
At 7:08 AM, Blogger ? said...

So what is the problem?

 
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At 11:07 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nice blog kid.
Reminds me of my childhood rants.
So cute.

 
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