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Friday, July 28, 2006

Why do grown men want to have sex with young boys?

I recently heard about men who have desires to have sex with young boys on Channelnewsasia's 20/20 program.
Refer to link: http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=1684565&page=1

And North American Man Boy Love Association website: http://216.220.97.17/

Oh my God of sanity and common decency...Such things in this world make me want to vomit and commit suicide like Judas...These people have no mind of God...

This is what happens when people misuse their "rights" and "ammendments" for all their little deluded habits worded as their "personal freedom".

Well we heard about men who go to Batam and Dr Amy Khor who spoke about the issue a while ago about imposing laws to prevent such acts from taking place. Thank God Singapore is Singapore and not other countries who blindly allows "freedom of rights" by minority activism groups with deluded agendas.

Why do grown men like the dentist would even think of having sex with young underaged boys?

"The man who shared our life and who shared our children. The man who shared my bed — prefers young boys." -the dentist's ex-wife

The reason I can theorise is because such grown men cannot function and adapt well to their grown-up environment with all the great demands and responsibilities for adults. In their free time, they escape to another world and day-dream of a scenario where they can escape to a moment and a place where they have little worries and fears of the future.

That time and moment to escape to is from their childhood.

They imagine that they were young children again, when their parents did all the worrying about money and food for them, and they were so free to play and dream with other kids, with other kids...

A good example is of the dentist being quite obsessed with toys, toys he could have wanted when he was a young boy. It shows escapism.

A well-known example is Michael Jackson and his Neverland theme park built for kids.

Homosexuals do mention that they realise they were attracted to other young boys when they were kids, and realise their developed sexuality at that young age. So having sex with young boys as opposed to grown up men is a different preference for a different type of sexual partner. Maybe they feel that they can be more of themselves when they were younger, they could escape their old age and be young again, they could become more childlike and escape to a less worrying stage of their lives, if their partner is "younger" and do not even have to give thought to anything, being underaged and cannot decide for themselves even.

This is why paedophiles want their sex partner to be underaged and too young to be consensual for sex, maybe they even want to escape and fantasize about "switching sides", they would become like the underaged boy and the grown men would be like a father or older brother-like figure who can take care of their worrying needs and problems. So temporarily while they have sex with a young boy, they could "switch identities" and escape to the mentality of the young boy and the grown man "behind them" being an older father or brother-like figure who can temporarily offer them relieve from worries and threats and provide distracting "comfort".

As I mentioned that people use sex to distract themselves from their daily worries and escape and relax the mind. Maybe to paedophiles, using young boys would prove to be more effective for them to escape to their childlike mode.

People must realise the source of the problems. As I mention that men play with other men's bodies as physical play for pleasure, which ever age group the males could be in, young boys or adult men.

And then we have heard about principals and teachers of local boys' schools being accused of molestation. The same reasons perhaps, they could just wish that by touching and realising the "feeling" of another man or boy, they could somehow "share" their youthful and childlike innocent quality, they could also temporarily escape to that "moment" when they were young boys again, free of the pressures and worries of adult life, such as job stability, rising costs of living etc.

But they only think of their own needs, hardly the consequences, life-long trauma and damage their acts would do to their innocent victims who would have the rest of their lives to live. Such mindlessly selfish and desperate acts is illegal and immoral, it is a criminal act.

The thought of grown men abusing and molesting young innocent boys feels like making my left and right brains want to switch sides, it makes the earth want to switch poles, in fact it is already switching poles.

Oh my God, such mindless animalistic and corrupted acts in this world gives people great doubt as to existence of life in this world.

NIV 1TH 4:3 It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. 8 Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.

Agree or disagree with this post? Any comments as to why grown men want to have sex with young boys? Do contribute.

7 Comments:

At 4:05 AM, Blogger John Riemann Soong said...

I'm surprised you only heard about NAMBLA from the #147 (yes, that's changed from #140) ... would have thought you would have known it by now.

And the frog in the well discovers the ocean...I wonder if you've heard of the Dutch political debate on this yet?

 
At 7:56 AM, Anonymous whybegay said...

So I guess this whole bunch of irrelevent and misinterpreted side talk means you have nothing relevent of interest to *constructively* contribute to the topic?

 
At 7:19 PM, Blogger John Riemann Soong said...

But it does reflect your lack of awareness.

Similarly "Such things in this world make me want to vomit and commit suicide like Judas" isn't a very articulate sentiment.

Disgust perhaps, but your use of polemics isn't particularly insightful.

 
At 7:58 PM, Anonymous whybegay said...

So I guess this whole bunch of irrelevent and misinterpreted side talk means you have nothing relevent of interest to *constructively* contribute to the topic?

 
At 8:03 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

There are grown men want to have sex with young girls too, and that behaviour is equally vile.

 
At 10:56 PM, Blogger whybegay said...

Yes, but this post is talking about homosexual paedophiles.

 
At 9:12 PM, Blogger Peter Saar said...

Is sex with young people not yet at the age of accountability and foresight to make responsible decisions about their future wrong?
Seriously, just think about it.
Is there right or wrong?
Who determines what is right or wrong?
Is there an objective human condition that knows suffering beyond a cultural bias?
Let's consult the author before we try to write our own history.
Whybegay - I agree with your sentiments however "inarticulate" they may be. Nevertheless about the only thing I agree with what you say is actually not your words but God's words.
Everyone else - If your heart isn't hardened consider my questions thoughtfully. Not for anyone else's sake but your own.

None of us are innocent. We have done some wrong in our lives, some bad things that have hurt others in varying degrees of severity, all of them whether you prey on small children or cheat on your spouse or call someone a "shitbag", all offend our maker. He made us for a purpose and it is to know him, knowing him is knowing right and wrong.. Knowing love. BUT in his great mercy and love he asks us to accept his forgiveness. A hard heart won't, only a willingness to concede that he has our ultimate joy in mind.

Bottom line:
Little boy lovers,
Your loved even though you sinned because you acted on your impulse. His hand is still extended.
Sharks on Wall Street,
Your loved even though you sinned because you acted on your impulse. His hand is still extended.
Animal abusers,
Your loved even though you sinned because you acted on your impulse. His hand is still extended.
Adulterers,
Your loved even though you sinned because you acted on your impulse. His hand is still extended.
People who stole a gallon of milk from the grocery store,
Your loved even though you sinned because you acted on your impulse. His hand is still extended.

All sinners, all guilty, all in need of forgiveness!
Forgiven!!!

 

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