Why be gay?

This blog explains my views of homosexuality based strictly on a scientific and psychological perspective.

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

How homosexuality is an abuse, denigration, discrimination, perversion and sexual compulsion

Having sex without the intention for procreation is already blind pleasure seeking. Some people have said that the intention to have sex with their (girl/boy) friends is to strengthen their bonds together. But surely there are other ways besides having sex to form a closer bond to people?

Does this mean that people who have sex make the strongest bonds, and those who don't make weaker bonds? Well the kind of bonds are in question, whether they are bonds for trust, love or just a bond for physical intimacy and lust?

From dictionary.com, the meaning of perversion is, "the action of perverting something (turning it to a wrong use); "it was a perversion of justice".(I chose the most subtle meaning).

So the definition of perversion is to turn a function into a wrong use. It is to misuse and abuse an object or person.

Having sex with the opposite sex without procreation is already a perversion, a misuse of the sex organs for blind pleasure. Having "sex" with the same gender would make it more perversive than opposite gender sex.

So homosexual sex is more perversive than heterosexual sex. Paedophilia sex would thus be even more perversive than same age homosexual sex.

Misusing of the sex organs is already a perversion, so homosexuality is infact a perversion. And perversions are caused by psychological disorders. They are disorders of failing to recognise the true functions of objects or people. This makes homosexual and heterosexual people who misuse their organs as having psychological disorders.

This blog's focus is on homosexuality as a perversion because it is more perversive than heterosexual non-procreation sex, and because same genders cannot possibly perform sexual intercourse in the technical sense. They misuse a non-sexual part of the body for "sex", this already fits the definition of perversion, which is the misusing of a body part for "sex". And this "sex" is a false sex without the possibility of procreation.

So homosexuals are not only being perverted, they are also being false. There are more truthful ways of forming trust, closer relationships and bonds with other people besides putting a part of oneself into the body of another while having the brain stimulated for pleasure. It is just misusing other people's bodies for pleasure. But is the function of people's bodies for the pleasuring of oneself? This is to disrespect another human being and to treat them as mere pleasure machines.

Men already disrespect women when they see women as pleasure servants, when men view the same of other men, they are disrespecting their own kind. This makes homosexuality more perversive than heterosexuality non-procreation sex.

Many men who already view women as sex objects are already practising a bad discrimination and desrespecting women's rights, and when homosexuals view men as sex objects, they are being worse than the men who desrespect women, because they desrespect their own gender and children of their own gender as well.

If men disrespect their own and view their own as sex objects, how disrespectful and degenerative is this? It is the same as your own family disrespecting you. It is a betrayal of the respect of the same gender. This is why many people distrust homosexuals and don't like to be physically close to them because people feel their intentions are not respectful and questionable. How does one know whether they are just friendly or are flirting themselves?

Many heterosexuals mix with their opposite gender homosexuals friends because they realise that their opposite gender homosexual friends would not try to hit on them, as opposite gender heterosexuals might do. On the other hand, heterosexuals would not feel safe with same gender homosexuals because they feel the same distrust as they feel towards the opposite gender, but they would be more wary and cautious.

People who cannot abstain themselves from sex are having sexual compulsive disorder and a disorder is a psychological problem. They have the need to continually misuse another person's body for their perversion. I have already mentioned in an earlier blog post as to why people have sex. They want sex to fulfill their needs for security, trust, comfort, pleasure, intimacy, distraction from threats etc Until homosexuals can find what they require from sex from other proper avenues, as well as abstain themselves from sex, they would always be deemed as suffering from sexual perversion and sexual compulsive disorder, both which are psychological disorders.

Homosexuality should not be promoted because it is a psychological problem

Refer to my earlier posts for my explanations of why Homosexuality is a psychological problem. If it is a psychological problem then why should a psychological problem be promoted?

Thursday, February 22, 2007

The reasons why most people do not like homosexuals

In many societies in the world, most people do not like homosexuals. They often view them with disgust and discrimination. But some people including homosexuals then accuse the dislikers as being ignorant and homophobic. But what are the dislikers being ignorant about is the question. Perhaps homosexuals feel that people are being ignorant of their rights to do things as they please.

Many homosexuals do not show respect for other people in society in many things that they do publicly, which are activities that could be seen as offensive to others. This could be the reason why homosexuals are seen as extreme pleasure seekers who often prioritise physical pleasure-seeking than other common needs, this could brand them as self-centered immoral people.

Homosexuals being vocal and loud in advocating for their rights would not help to convince people to change their minds because is is not possible to change society into accepting degenerative people and their activities. They should be discreet in their acts instead of going against common norms. It is futile trying to convince the majority that denegenerative activities should be commonly accepted.

Moreover, people have come to view homosexuals as degenerative people who often go after rich materialistic lifestyles, going after nice superficial things in life like fashion, food, entertainment and physical pleasure. Society therefore does not view homosexuals as good role models.

Many extreme homosexuals are the ones who give homosexuality the bad name. They are the paedophiles who molest and seek sexual pleasure from young children, the ones who seek sexual pleasure without protection which leads to the spreading of Aids, and the ones who perform offensive acts in public etc

Most people in society thus cannot accept homosexuals. The unacceptance is complicated when homosexuals rely on their emotional abstract language rather than simple logical thought in communicating their ideas to others, leading to misunderstandings. Their poor communication skills and volatile nature thus gets in the way of their desire to be understood by others.

Most people in society often feel that there is nothing much to understand about homosexuals anyway, since they are a group of emotional and pleasure-seeking people who are quite unusual in their thoughts and communicate in abstract languages and terms. What is there really to be liked about homosexuals? Can anyone state some reasons for them to be liked?

I do not care what homosexuals do with their own lives as long as they do not promote their bad behaviour with misleading social behaviours and false concepts of happiness and freedom, nor torment people with their criminal behaviour such as the homosexual molesters, rapists and paedophiles. If homosexuals continue to state that homosexuality is not a psychological problem, this blog will always be here to explain otherwise.